Confidence accelerates success. Without it, we revert to fear, worry, and doubt making us tentative in taking action or making decisions…”Hello, procrastination!”
Now that you’ve gained clarity, you become more competent in being YOU. The more you honor Your WHY, values, and states, the more you become solid in who you are as a person.
In psychology, this is known as the ‘confidence/competence loop’. Most people think of this in reference to skills, the more you practice something, the better you get, the more confident you become.
I’ve just applied the same concept to the practice of being YOU! When your thoughts and behaviors are aligned, your authenticity grows. Basically, you turn into the ‘CEO of Me’.
In this pillar, you ground confidence by:
- – Honoring, and acting on, the clarity you discovered
- – Developing a roadmap on how to journey from the life you’ve created to-date to the person you’re transforming into. Warning! Some around you might not like it.
- – Keeping promises to yourself. How often will you do things for others, but not yourself…crazy right?!
- – Using neuroscience to program continuous improvement to level-up happiness, fulfillment, and success
“Once we believe in ourselves, we can risk curiosity, wonder, spontaneous delight, or any experience that reveals the human spirit.”
– E.E. Cummings